The ONLY certainty about tomorrow is its UNCERTAINTY. Ik
Muo, 2025
Saturday,
18/10/25 started without any foreboding signs. I woke up in high spirits,
performed my AM rituals( prayers, checking my
WhatSapp & Email messages, updating my records), had my breakfast,
started working on my article on ASUU and on the December edition of Ihuowelle
Quarterly. However everything changed
when my junior sister Azuka, called me agonizing and wailing profusely. I immediately placed myself on red alert
because I knew instantly that we were going to have an unusual sorrow-laced conversation.
There were no greetings, no formalities and she told me straightforwardly that Eddy
anwuona’! Because we also have
Eddy in our family, I asked her ‘ which Eddy? And she responded Eddy
Muoemenem, and dropped the call!. I gravely shouted hei!, hei!!. Hei! Alu emee!!! To say
that I was chattered is to put it
mildly!
I immediately recalled his ever-smiling
visage, his simplicity, humility, friendship towards all and his support for
evangelism. I remembered his ‘performance’ at the IDU Lagos ( 28/9/25) launching where he was
an emergency Chief Launcher but still lobbied
Emma Umenwa and announced that both of them would donate the
Generator, which was the major item on the
shopping-list. That was after he had made a soul stirring speech, advising
us to leave the past and focus on the
future, imploring parents of ALL villages
to apply for the scholarship scheme of his foundation, advising IDU Lagos to upgrade
the road to IDU hall as a way of improving its revenue potentials and
to recognize the efforts of Chief AO Umeh in building the hall. Had he just come to show us himself finally ?
I wondered how those who received his
freewill offering of bags of rice on 27
& 28 September,, some of whom might not have opened the bags, would be
feeling. I remembered how he attended the June 2025
IgboUkwu Development Union General Meeting at Amaehulu, on the day the
hall was turned into a battle ground of sorts and asked us to forge ahead together rather than
the dog-eat-dog mindset and donated 1m
for our refreshment. I recalled that many people like him no longer attend IDU
meetings because they have outgrown that. I recalled how he twice evaded
the chieftaincy title unanimously bestowed on him by the leadership and
people Igbo-Ukwu. I recalled my last discussion with him when he called to apologise for his absence from my brothers funeral and followed it up by doing the needful. I still
recalled my extensive interview with him
when I was writing my book on Entrepreneurship in a changing environment and
my intention to discuss the sponsorship of the Christmas Edition of Ihuowelle
Quarterly with him. All these ideas were running around my head within
a few seconds, with the painful realisation that I would NEVER see him again!.
Eddy, at his best and FULL of life at IDU Lagos
launching of 28/9/25
I placed some calls, confirmed that he had
died and was being ‘parceled’ to Igbo-Ukwu, I sorrowed in my own way and
awaited for the official announcement after which I paid this short, spontaneous tribute: Simple,
humble, friendly to ALL, ever-smiling and a silent philanthropist, just the
other day, he was appealing to people to
apply to his foundations scholarship and surprised us despite bthe short
notice. May the good Lord grant him eternal rest and console the family. For
those of us alive, lets imbibe the deep lessons from this unbelievable
incidence. There is no gap between life and death. Eddy, fare thee well as you
will be remembered by ALL that you have done. This was around 6.50pm on
19/10/25. I don’t know whether I should upgrade the tribute but there is not
much to add except that he lived an IMPACTFUL life and shaped the course of
events wherever he found himself. He never hid whenever there was need to stand up and be counted: in physical
presence, in ideas and in cash. I am also aware that he helped many of our
people in business and I just heard that about 20 years ago, when Naira was
Naira he extended up to N600000000 credit to one- just one- of our compatriots.
Since
then all sorts of tear-inducing tributes have been pouring in, with different
people harping on different aspects of his known universal qualities; humility,
simplicity, friendliness and helpfulness. Our people trooped to his house at
Palmgrove Estate en mass, with some of them saying that we have never had it so
bad. But the elders who were in Lagos as at 1997 will remember that we have had a similar experience. That
was when Chief Ochendo Okoye, Chairman of IDU-Lagos died in a road accident at Ore and it looked as if the world would stand still or even seize to exist!
The summary is that the man died!!! The man was Sir Eddy Muoemenem, Eddy
Santana, Onwa, Ebekuodike, CEO of Edic Chemicals and Clarion Medicals,
the Maverick entrepreneur. He died… just like that. His life validates
one of the sayings of Joel Osteen that When
you focus on being a blessing to others, God makes sure that you are always
blessed in ABUNDANCE. He was always joyful and cheerful but the
secret of his joy was not that everything went right for him but that he found
something right in everything as he kept on doing good deliberately. However,
all that is over. A date will soon be fixed, he will be buried and that would be
that. Those of us who believe that there might been some post-death
purification( purgatorianism) will still be praying for him but generally, it would be over with
his burial and funeral ceremonies.
My concern in this intervention however is
for the living. What lessons do we derive from this unbelievable, shocking and sudden demise of Eddy Santana?( VW Santana,
which was few on Nigerian roads, was
once his signature ride then). He went
to prolong life by engaging in physical exercise and died on his way home. No
goodbyes; no farewell briefings! Well,
there are generally certified lessons
like the
FINALITY of death and the irrefutable reality that we cannot leave this world alive;
that
death MUST come and it will come where, when and how we do not know but is
known ONLY to God of upper above, who charted
the course from the very beginning. Life
also goes on for the living, even those most directly affected. There may also
be other lessons peculiar to different
individuals and groups. However, I want to dwell on just one: life is short,
its duration is uncertain and most important, Tomorrow may NEVER come. Eddy left his house hale and hearty, in good
spirits, with activities lined up for the day
and the following week but the tomorrow never came. That AM, he would
have outlined what he would do that day, the following day and even the
following week. He would have planned after
the exercise, to host some strategic business colleagues , attend a wedding, visit a family
or two and retouch his schedule for the upcoming week. But the tomorrow did NOT
come for him. Death, as usual, came as a thief
unannounced and unanticipated, and snatched the humble one. As with ALL mortals, he did not know the day or the hour( Mt, 25:13). I
once had a scary experience. I went to school but was feeling somehow and so I
went to the clinic straight and from there I was exported to the Olabisi
Onabanjo Teaching Hospital where I was subjected to medical detention for two
weeks. I did not even enter my office that day and all my plans and intentions
(lectures, project supervision, meetings) were forcefully suspended! But
luckily, the tomorrow and subsequent ones came for me. For all of us reading
this write-up, the particular tomorrow of 19/10/25 and subsequent tomorrows
materialized for us but it will not
always be so.
The GOOD BOOK has always warned or advised us
against taking tomorrow for granted. James(4:13-16) warned us against saying today or tomorrow, we will go to
such and such a city, spend a year there, and engage in business and
make profit, yet you do not know what your life will be tomorrow. You are just
like a vapour that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead. We
ought to say, if the Lord wills, we will live and also do this or that. We were warned not to
boast about tomorrow for we do not know what the day may bring forth(
Proverbs 27:1) and not to worry about
tomorrow for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of
its own(-Mt.6:34). We are reminded that our days a mere handbreadth; the span
of our years is nothing before to God
and that everyone is but a breath, even those who seem secure (Psalm39:5)
So,
whatever we are doing, let us do so
bearing in mind that tomorrow, yes, I mean tomorrow, may never come for us. As Fr Blessed Njume opined on 22/10/25, life
is the only bank where we withdraw from (every second, minute, hour and day lived is a withdrawal) but we do not know the outstanding
balance and he ended with this long
standing but difficult advice: live each day as if it were your last. Since Eddy’s death has jolted
us into the reality that tomorrow may
never come, we should do well to bear that irrefutability in mind in everything
we do or want to do; we should do them TODAY and not wait for tomorrow which
may not come. These include Love of God and man( Mt 22:37+),being at peace with all men: ( Romans 2:8), being
the peacemaker so as to be called son of
God( Mt5:9);being the meek so as to
inherit the earth: ( Mt,5.5), playing the good Samaritan: ( compassion, empathy,
generosity, selflessness) (Luke 10:25+),
validating our faith with good
works ( James2:26) forgiving 70x7( Mt, 18:21-22), living a life of empathy and
compassion, being our brothers’ keeper, bearing in mind that our brother is
EVERYBODY in need that we have the
capacity to assist; letting go of any hurt, treating any outstanding matter
that we have KIVed( KIV: Keep in View) for weeks, months or years, reconciling(
Mt5.25), bonding positively with family, kinsmen and friends, sharing the peace and joy of
God, being good parents, loving spouses, collaborative
colleagues and cooperative neighbors, taking care of ourselves, dumping any destructive or awful habit,
adopting any adorable habit, letting go off any heavy burden, undertaking that new project or that
holiday should be done TODAY because that is the only day we have, and are sure of because yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come.
NOW IS THE TIME; and the time is on our side. Of course if there were any evil
we are planning, any vengeance that is in the pipeline, any war
with family and friends, we can leave
them for tomorrow!!
I was still in a mourning mood when The Morning Prayers of 20/10/25
admonished us to give a helping hand and
to do the little we can to make the world a better place for everyone. But this
has to be NOW, not tomorrow!!! Long before this, Mother Theresa advised us to:
Do ALL the GOOD we can By all the means you can In all the ways we can In all the places we can At all the times we can To ALL the people we can As long as we can
And
to this I dare to add: do it today, Do NOT WAIT for TOMORROW because
TOMORROW MAY NEVER COME! About 40 years ago, I authored a short poem which read thus:
DO NOT LEAVE FOR TOMORROW
WHAT
YOU CAN DO TODAY BECAUSE
TOMORROW MAY NEVER COME.
I do not know to what extent I live by this my
treatise but I advise ALL of us to try and abide by it
Good buy to Eddy Santana and my
sincere condolences to Muomenem Family, Umunono Kindred, Ndi-Obiuno, Ndi
IgboUkwu amd Ndi Igbo in General.
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May he rest in peace
ReplyDeleteAt point of death, what can one be remembered for...?
ReplyDeleteOnly deeds (actions or inactions).
If one man's death could raise these numbers of testaments not just because of his riches but because of his deeds and personality, then one need not ask questions about who he was or why he was called Ebekuodike.
If only death was a sensitive entity with human sympathy, it should have taken money or energy drink and left Sir Eddy Mmuoemene for us.
But one can son of a man do at this point? We still glorify God for giving us a blessing in the person of Ebekuo even though the blessing was cut short when we least expected it. We pray for his peaceful transition to rejoin his creator.
One of the people in Igbo-Ukwu who made me understand that one must not be a titled man before he pr she can make an outstanding impact on his community.
There are many of them in our misst who live a simple life, care less about titles and chieftaincy, but are ever ready to do something meaningful and strategic for the entire community.
RIP to ofu onye na ime ndi Igbo-Ukwu jiri di Ebube...
Marvels Ubasinachi...